44 year old Woman

Seeks a Man for Dating , Man or Woman for Friendship

Looking for .... Relationship labels seem overrated

Last active: within 3 months
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Connections Over Relationships

Hmmm... Well I'm just going to be open and say that every past relationship I've had has pretty much been a catastrophic disaster. Maybe that was because I was trying to find my personal inner happiness from another person, which doesn't work for obvious reasons but there's nothing like learning things the hard way, right?

I'm not interested in being married again or anything possessive... but I'm also not into sex just for sex or using people.... I tend to think it's possible to genuinely and respectfully connect with others... and that those connections can't be defined under some kind of category... if we want anything meaningful....

Conscious awareness is really important to me in a person... as well as a desire to make the world a better place.... I gravitate toward deeper, intelligent conversations but I also like blurting random, spontaneous statements out for seemingly no reason other than that they exist.


What is something that people are surprised to find out about you? Hey, what happened to our ads?

If you could have a dinner party and invite any 4 people, dead or alive, who'd be coming? OSHO, Peter Joseph, Banksy, and my friend Melissa.... That would either be a really fabulous combo or a really awkward social situation.

Where do you like to hang out? Conscious, artsy places that care more about what they're selling than the profit they're making....

What kind of person are you attracted to? HONEST, aware, open, witty sense of humor, not scary or creepy.... I appreciate the lengthy and heartfelt messages but I don't respond to people without a profile or a picture.

Top Five Songs You Play For Your Friends? Top Five When You're By Yourself? For Friends: Cold, The Cure; No. 13 Baby, Pixies; Contraption, Thee Oh Sees; Monday Morning, Death Cab; Can't Truss It, Public Enemy.... By Myself: Smart Went Crazy, Atmosphere, The Dreaming Moon, Magnetic Fields; Roads, Portishead; Queen of the Night, Wait, M83

If I could change one thing about Seattle, it would be: Tha freakin' weather! But that's basically the only thing I don't totally love about it.

One movie everyone should see is: Whatever movie you really want to see. Forget the rest.

If I could only eat one type of food for the rest of my life, it would be: Fish and shellfish, preferably wild, grilled and without the toxic mercury.

Fill It

I consider myself an open-minded person, but my deal breakers are demanding people and attention whores

Something I learned from the last person I dated is relationships aren't necessarily connections.

The first section I turn to in the Stranger is I might have to read this mag that can come up with such fun fill-in questions.

Great sex calls for lots of love and abandon.

When I die, I believe I will go to another dimension of consciousness.

One sport I will never get is any sport where competition drowns the love of the game.


Current Status
Looking for
.... Relationship labels seem overrated
Body Type
Slender, Curvy
5' 04"
Hair Type
Brown, Red, Black
Man for Dating , Man or Woman for Friendship


College graduate
Political Leanings
Web Designer, Writer
Have Children
Yes but my life doesn't revolve around them and I think kids should have their freedom too.
Want Children


Meditation is the best drug.


I get around town via
My dietary preferences are
Conscious Omnivore
I spend my free time
Reading, Creating, Isn't it ultimately all free time?
Funniest Thing
Weird Twitter
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