Ahoy there sailors!
I'm curious to see who's swimming in these here waters. So let me cast my line & find what the sea has in store.
I'm looking to go on dates with delightfully wonderful men. I'm even more interested in narrowing that down to one man with a heart of gold. I like those that respect themselves & who respect me. I am not fake or phoney & am not attracting those of a dishonest nature. I understand that dating in general can be a bit on the uncertain side. Especially when someone is looking for a meaningful encounter which has the potential to lead to more meaningful encounters.
I don't do the hookup thing. Sex is important to me. So I'm willing to build up to that with someone that I really enjoy & who really enjoys me. I have a heart and know what I am looking for. I'm not shallow, I don't worry about the materialistic aspects of life & I don't get caught up in the mundane. In no way am I perfect, but overall strive for balance & happiness in my life. It would be fantastic to be able to share of that with someone else.
About the physical. I have a few extra pounds-but am not terribly concerned with my weight. I have long dark hair, lovely eyes, and get a lot of nice compliments on my eyebrows (which is nice). My face has the qualities of both male & female aspects. But most of the time registers as feminine.
About the non physical. I am emotionally available. I love delving into my spiritual side. I'm fluent in feeling energy & am very "aware". I am utterly creative & usually doing something fun. I am more of a nurturer & work with folks that need a bit of extra help along the way. I am a total fan of communication & feel it's essential in connection to others.
About my personality. I'm fun to be with. I like to laugh & use silly voices. I don't get caught up in what others think about me. I am a blend between the masculine & feminine traits. I flow very well between both energies. In a nutshell, I'm just me.
What I'm looking for. A lovely human being that is in touch with himself. This to me means being emotionally available, possessing great communication skills, someone that is caring, honest, & generally fun to be with. I love cuddling, kissing & intimacy, but am in no rush to force them along. Hope that's important to you too. That would suck if it weren't.
What I'm looking for in the physical. I find that I am drawn to men that are comfortable in themselves. Sure I like handsome faces, but am not necessarily in search of stereotypical beauty. Every face has it's charms. It's really about the person behind the face that I seek. I'm open to different body shapes. I prefer more of an average build. But if you have a few extra pounds (I say that liberally), at least I know you're eating & are able to take care of yourself. I also don't have any sexy diseases & I'm not in the market for any. So if you don't either, that's wonderful!
I'm not looking to prove anything, and ask the same of you. I don't care about the car you drive or the money you make. I could care less about the clothes you wear. I like people for their content, not their shiny wrapper.
I guess that's about it.
Let's go on a date!
Let's do random things that seem silly!
Let's make great food together & eat at the beach!
Let's pack sammies for the homeless & go downtown!
Let's paint pictures together & go roll in the mud!
The point is, let's have fun!!! It's about getting to know someone in a new way.
What say you, Frodo?
What is something that people are surprised to find out about you? How long I have worked & my career choices, considering my age. 15 years veterinary medicine, 10 as a tech. I have also done work as a caregiver, an outreach worker for homeless youth, a caterer, makeup artist, house cleaner, pet sitter, and a bunch of other random things that passed the time.
What kind of person are you attracted to? Lovely human beings. I enjoy people that are accepting & good natured. I like folks that smile & aren't afraid to laugh at themselves or at life. I like men that are warm & friendly and am open to meeting more of them.
The quickest way to my heart is kindness The quickest way to my bed is to get to know me And in the morning, I like my eggs cooked a hundred different ways
Surf or Snow
Tent or Hotel
Kittens or Puppies